Hello @moopapa,
Welcome to our guitar family it is great to have you with us.
Congratulations on your exciting news, I bet you will be a lovely dad.
I can offer you answers to questions 2 and 3 together because they are interlinked: I would recommend doing the Learn & Master Guitar course first, I think people are saying that you can switch over to the Fingerstyle course when you get to Session 11 in the Guitar course. I believe you will need to learn the chords in order to do fingerstyle as they are often used in fingerstyle, but the Guitar course will help you with that.
The Learn & Master Guitar course is an excellent foundation for guitar learning (probably the best on the market) but I am not sure about how it lends itself to classical guitar as classical guitarists hold the guitar in a different way and it is a much more disciplined way of playing. I have not gone down that route.
Yamaha Slg200s ( my wife's gift) , ? that will not wake your baby!
Keep us posted on how you are doing and keep asking questions!
Best wishes
Mandy