Hi to all the wonderful guitar gathering family. I think it is about time after being a lurker on this forum and the old Legacy forum to introduce myself. I have been a L&M student for about 7 years and like many of you have had numerous stops and starts for many reasons. Some breaks lasted weeks, others lasted months, but I never lost the ambition to play guitar only the motivation.
During my journey I found both Forums a tremendous help whenever I had a question or read of someone else experiencing the same difficulties. It was comforting to know that I wasn’t alone or that I was not the only one not being able to ring out that pesky Barre Chord.
Very early on my journey, we’re talking sessions 1-4, I realised that when I referred to ‘playing a guitar’ I really meant ‘playing fingerstyle guitar’ so I ordered Steve’s Fingerstyle course. I took one look at the lesson book, gulped and hastily put it back on the shelf realising I had a long way to go before I could attempt it. I had also realised that Sessions 1-9 on L&M Guitar were essential, and were the foundations of guitar playing, i.e. learning notes, chords, basic music theory, scales etc., as well as building muscle memory and finger dexterity and strength.
About 2 years I go I realised unless I really knuckled down, I wasn’t going to reach my finger style goal. I think part of my problem was being a perfectionist. I couldn’t move onto to the next session until I could play everything perfectly, which looking back was unrealistic. I made a conscious decision to work through the sessions 1-10 again (again) but not to be hung up on perfection, but to understand the concepts and play them adequately and then utilise them playing songs! So, I did just that, and moved onto the Steve’s fingerstyle course. I admit that I am not religiously following every practice lesson, but have learnt and understood the concepts and applied them to songs and will sometimes dip into Steve’s lessons as a refresher or to further my knowledge, the 3rds, 6ths and 10ths is my next goal. I also have been studying some Classical Guitar techniques which have helped a lot, especially with finger independence and also picked up a lot of tips from YouTube too!
A big thank you to Steve and all the guitar family for being so supportive I have really enjoyed seeing where many people’s guitar journey has taken them; from performing live solo, in bands, at weddings and in church to song collaborations and music production. All your paths have been as varied as there are types of guitars and genres of music. To think most of you all started on Session 1 of Steve’s L&M guitar and look where you are now! And to those just starting out on their guitar journey, you will experience sore fingers, you will become despondent, you will think you will never reach that chord, but as Mr John Wells always advised Practice, Patience and Perseverance, and you will be able to it one day and everyone here is with you every step of the way.